Get married
For me, if life doesn't change better, then don't worry about getting married. The so-called better is not material.
Of course, material is a must for marriage. A couple who get along well with each other will face quarrels when they face life and life. However, as long as the substance does not affect the daily life, it is enough to have a house to live in the next family, not to be hungry and frozen, and not to worry about the next meal. Better, it means life. If you are with this person and have not been happier, why should you marry?
In a patriarchal society, marriage is somewhat unfair to women. Especially under the restraint of Chinese culture, if a woman marries a wife, if it is unfortunate, it is similar to the slaves at home, and the hard work is done and nobody cares. I usually need to clean the house, prepare meals, serve my in-laws like my own parents, cook rice, and have children to play with my in-laws. If I still make money, I will make better. Why must girls clean the house? Cooking rice? Why do girls have to serve their in-laws? In this way, is marriage more happier? If life is not better, why do you want to get married? This is only part of the family, not to mention the two people in the marriage, what kind of difficulties will be encountered when living together.
Different living habits, different health habits, different ways of communication, different religious beliefs, different values, different ambitions, different views, and different monetary concepts... Two people who are not together are only one, or one Forbearance to the end of the outbreak and then the divorce ended. If life is not happier, why do you want to get married?
Sometimes I hear the stories of my elders. A couple who have been in love for a long time are separated by personality, but after less than two years of separation, they find objects to marry, some even less than a year. Whenever I hear these stories, I have a blessing in my heart, but I can’t help but wonder. What are the reasons for these people to get married? It’s time, so find someone who is in good condition and get married? Or really understand each other, like each other's personality, like the two people get along, like the future possible with the other party, so seriously decided to step into the next stage of life?
I still feel that it is better to first understand why I am getting married, and then to carry out this action, otherwise, marriage will really be the grave of love.😓😓😓😓
Of course, material is a must for marriage. A couple who get along well with each other will face quarrels when they face life and life. However, as long as the substance does not affect the daily life, it is enough to have a house to live in the next family, not to be hungry and frozen, and not to worry about the next meal. Better, it means life. If you are with this person and have not been happier, why should you marry?
In a patriarchal society, marriage is somewhat unfair to women. Especially under the restraint of Chinese culture, if a woman marries a wife, if it is unfortunate, it is similar to the slaves at home, and the hard work is done and nobody cares. I usually need to clean the house, prepare meals, serve my in-laws like my own parents, cook rice, and have children to play with my in-laws. If I still make money, I will make better. Why must girls clean the house? Cooking rice? Why do girls have to serve their in-laws? In this way, is marriage more happier? If life is not better, why do you want to get married? This is only part of the family, not to mention the two people in the marriage, what kind of difficulties will be encountered when living together.
Different living habits, different health habits, different ways of communication, different religious beliefs, different values, different ambitions, different views, and different monetary concepts... Two people who are not together are only one, or one Forbearance to the end of the outbreak and then the divorce ended. If life is not happier, why do you want to get married?
Sometimes I hear the stories of my elders. A couple who have been in love for a long time are separated by personality, but after less than two years of separation, they find objects to marry, some even less than a year. Whenever I hear these stories, I have a blessing in my heart, but I can’t help but wonder. What are the reasons for these people to get married? It’s time, so find someone who is in good condition and get married? Or really understand each other, like each other's personality, like the two people get along, like the future possible with the other party, so seriously decided to step into the next stage of life?
I still feel that it is better to first understand why I am getting married, and then to carry out this action, otherwise, marriage will really be the grave of love.😓😓😓😓
"If you are with this person and have not been happier, why should you marry?" "I still feel that it is better to first understand why I am getting married, and then to carry out this action, otherwise, marriage will really be the grave of love." - I can't agree with you more! Sometimes I really don't understand why people get married, they clearly have a better life and work before... they just jump into the fire.
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