Winni’s accomplishments in 2018

I really feel that the fact is that I really grow up, I am learning how to be alone. After entering into college, this year is already the third year. I observe my words, deeds, motives and habits every day. Over time, my observations are strengthened and my awareness is improving. Many of the friends who know each other are afraid of being alone. They think that people are social animals. The loneliness seems to run counter to this society. Especially under the effect of social networks such as Facebook and Instagram, it is difficult to be alone. Adding difficulty. I have found that many people equate solitude and loneliness and think that being alone is a person who leaves society, family and friends and lives alone for a lifetime. People who are afraid of loneliness are often people who avoid loneliness. When they are alone, they don’t know what to do. They don’t have a clue. They don’t care. If they are uneasy and want to escape loneliness, they will feel bad!

We seem to have spent too much time filling up the daily itinerary and turning around and discovering that we forgot to leave time for ourselves.
Some people feel guilty when they are alone, others do not like to be alone, and others think that being alone is equal to loneliness, but in fact, being alone is the key to self-growth and development.
"Independence" is the time for us to recharge ourselves. However, "loneness" is a feeling of isolation from life. One is the driving force of self-growth, a cage for imprisoning oneself.
We are too busy planning the day, and vacating time alone becomes a very struggling thing, not just that adults need personal time, and children need it. Expert Reed W. Larson has done a study that shows that people who spend their time alone in adolescence are more flexible and adaptable than those who spend less or too much time alone.

Any activity you can do with others can be done by yourself. We are just too accustomed to inviting friends or family when we are out, but we rarely give ourselves the opportunity to do something on our own. Next time, when you want to go to the movies, go out for dinner or even shop, try to travel with you!

Maybe it will be weird at first, it doesn't matter. If we allow ourselves to explore what is happening around us without criticism, we will add important ideas or other valuable information to help us better understand our needs. I hope that I can find a lifestyle that suits me and live in a happy life forever.